How to Outwork Everybody? (Unleash your Power)

Have you ever had a moment when you finished your training, you’re walking back home and you see all those people partying on every corner of the city?

Everyone’s enjoying themselves, drinking, partying, and you feel like an outsider. And you feel sad, not because you’re not with them, but because you see everybody just ruining their lives and not being productive.

Looking around at these people: they’re sloppy drunk, falling over, drinking, dropping their bottles, talking loudly, making random noises outside of the bar.

Remember what was it like

And you remember, you’ve been like that yourself. You’ve been the drinker, you’ve been the partier, and you know that there isn’t a lot of fulfillment in that kind of lifestyle.

You know what’s going to happen next,  they’re all happy right now, but they’ll be hungover tomorrow. They’re also going to be too tired to do anything productive on Sunday, and then they’re going to go back to work on Monday and hate their lives.

You can tell how depressed someone is by how many substances they take. You can tell how fulfilled someone is by how sober and clean they are.  Maybe you can not relate to drinking and partying but to something like video games.

When you see the people you used to know who are still addicted to video games after you’ve made progress, it almost makes you feel hateful and sad. Not so much at them, but at your younger self because you remember being like that, spending years of your life wasting away for something that wasn’t even enjoyable.

It creates this almost level of what normal people think is arrogance and narcissism, but we know it’s actually the weird version of self-love where you respect yourself so much you refuse to do these unhealthy habits like staying up late, taking drugs, playing video games, and masturbating.

The truth is that those fun things you sometimes desire, like hanging out with a girl or going partying, are the bottom-tier, low-end version of that fun.

Find Your Purpose

When you do these “fun” things is that you haven’t found your purpose yet. When you find your purpose, you automatically begin to outwork everyone. You know if you’re a purposeful guy or not by just how different you are from 99% of men.

You will be ruthless with your work rates, wanting to optimize all of your life to keep making progress in your purpose, your big mission, your big goal.

When guys don’t have that purpose, when guys are living with a lack of purpose, a lack of mission, that’s when they look at you and think you’re weird because you want to work on your goals all day.

Some of these guys will be the crabs who pull you down, make fun of you, and genuinely try to stop you from working so hard. You probably know a few guys like that, bullying through jokes, trying to socially isolate you, or making you feel worse when you’re trying to be productive and healthy.

It’s not hard to beat people like that. Honestly, it’s not hard to beat 90% of people when you just do the right things with that drive, that masculine passion. When you realize what it is that you care about, I think a little bit of toxicity is actually a good thing, especially for your first few years of self-improvement.

The most progress certain young men make is the ones who actually have quite a lot of that negative emotion inside of them. They were hurt by someone in the past, went through a painful breakup, and got bullied. They used that as fuel to get themselves into the gym, do massive workouts, and make a lot of progress.

Of course, you don’t want to always be in this resentful, hateful mode. Using it productively can be a really good thing. So, if you want to, close your eyes right now and think of the men you want to outwork.

Think of the specific people who doubted you, made fun of you, bullied you, and think to yourself where you’re going to be a few years from now and where they’re going to be.

These successful people you see, whether they try to act wholesome, warm, or humble, have similar thoughts about this. They just don’t speak about it because they know, in some ways, that will make them look worse.

It’s a Competitive Zone

It is this competitive zone, and the brutal reality of this is when you get a girlfriend or a wife, other men want her. You need to understand this. Other men want your future wife, and they will try to do so today.

Your future wife is out there right now, and some other guy who’s been working hard, has a nice clean haircut, is in shape, has a six-pack, and is not bloated like you are, he’s going to go cold approach her today.

Do you know why this advice is quite popular? When I talk about the concept of other guys approaching your girl, every guy knows that this is true. Every guy, whether you’ve experienced this or not, every guy in his gut knows that this is 100% happening.

The woman you want right now, she’s somewhere out there. Maybe you haven’t even met her. She’s living her normal life. She doesn’t even know you yet, and other men want her today. Maybe they will succeed because you haven’t been working hard enough yet.

This doesn’t mean you need to be working to make money 16 hours a day, working overtime or sleep-deprived. It’s to be productive 100% of the day. But productivity still equals getting good sleep, eating a good diet, social connection and sunlight. 

Saying, “I just want an hour to rest at the end of the hard day,” so many young guys like to cope by playing video games, watching anime. Those men or boys who are really into anime and video games, don’t ever want to hear this message because their addiction is so strong that for them, anyone who disagrees with playing five hours of video games or watching a bunch of anime, they just shut it off.

They think, “He’s a bad guy. He doesn’t know how to relax and enjoy himself at the end of a hard day.”

The success you want, comes from the work you’re refusing to do, from the work you’re coping and pretending you’re getting into when really all you’re doing is thinking about it a lot instead of actually just doing the work.

Never forget your purpose, outwork them all!